So today was when it was finally her turn to show me something. The funny thing is, it’s her that was really being shown the truth about things. Let me just back up a second and relay some of the classy things that this other “boy” had to say to me. When I first found out about this bullshit, I sent him a text asking him to leave my family alone and that we were still married. His response? A rant worthy of a 16 year old. I was called a “dead beat dad” and an alcoholic loser who mistreats women. Yes. Sounds like he has me pinned. Oh, I was also told that because of me, my daughter would be on a stripper pole by her 18th birthday. I received plenty of other hateful, profanity filled text messages, and my mother in law even got one sent to her saying all kinds of horrible shit. Yes a real knight in shining armor we have here. So the whole world got to see what a piece of shit this guy really was, it was time for one final person to see things for what they really were.
I showed up to take her to work and that was when we had agreed to tell this guy it was over and to leave us alone. The message she sent him stated that we were getting back together and that she was giving her family a chance. She asked that he not speak to her anymore and even threw in a few kind statements like “thanks for being there for me when things were difficult in my life”. I am not an unreasonable person, and despite how little I think of this person, I respected that my wife at one point considered him a friend. But when the grass is cut, the snakes will show. The response was at this point, typical. Profanity. Belittlement. It was kind of scary to see how a 39 year old “man” of his age flew off the handle when presented with any sort of backlash to what he wanted. He told her to fuck off, me to fuck off, that we “deserved each other”, and that my wife was “daft” to be stupid enough to get back with me, and to never contact him again. He threw in a real comedy line, saying he was done “dealing with children”. That’s rich. Thanks for doing EXACTLY what I said you would do, and being the person I always KNEW that you were. It takes a real fucking loser to knowingly try and break up a family, so no one should be surprised this is how that kind of person would act. I even sent him a letter last week, respectfully and politely asking that he please leave my wife alone and that we were spending a ton of time together as a family trying to fix things. I included all of my Facebook photo albums (hard for that many pictures to lie!) and kept everything in the letter civil. No response. Figures. He didn’t care whatsoever that she was trying to fix things with me.
Oh, and the last thing he said yesterday was that if he ever saw me at a show he would “beat my ass and laugh”. Ok.
